Thursday, March 21, 2013

A boy named Fanny


A boy named Fanny






I am not normal I was born with no sex that could be determined. It was later decided I was to be a boy.

This is the story of fanny, a girl who fought all her life to be what she was born to be.

For fanny, the first 5 years were uneventful. But not for her parents, fanny got into trouble everywhere. Not that she was bad but inappropriate. Like wearing her mothers earrings. Or playing house with her as a wife and mother, it was OK with the rest of the girls, but not with father. Fanny did not understand any of it. Was not fair, she said. all the rest of the girls were allowed. They kept telling her she was a boy. But she knew that was not right, not with what was happing between her legs. Was the world crazy? Parents controlled everything she wanted to scream and cry and bang her head against to wall. Which she did often, it only lasted as long as the pain did. It did not matter. She had one choice what they could not control; she had control of her life, and would not stay in a world where she had to be a boy. She hated and loved her parents at the same time. Perhaps she was crazy, the the thought had crossed her mind more than once. If she was crazy then just accept those pills they gave her and let her mind grow foggy. As it had once before. She would never accept that again, lousing sentences forgetting whole days. She would rather be dead.
There was one light on the road that helped and that was school. Oh not at first of course, she had to sit out in the boys play yard. They would never pick her for anything. Largely due to Father Lang, who put her on the bench quite literally, the only bench there. By the second week the teams were set and no one wanted to add her. That was fine with her she would read and she did not have to change out of her gym uniform in front of the boys. They should not see the mess between her legs.
But they could not help pushing her in the mud. She would have to sit in wet pants again today. Trey hated her. For what she was. Like her father they wanted something that she did not understand what it was.to be a part of their club?. But what ever it was it eluded her. Girls now were easy to understand, any girl anywhere. She knew what they liked so it was easy to talk to them, she hated what she was. Please GOD let me die, would I be so missed? My father hates me I cannot stand to be a male what use am I

Her primary adversary was a boy named Alfred Astin in the first week she arrived he found her alone and began to crudely hold her and kiss her. Fanny was so overwhelmed that she clawed her way out of his arms and began running for home. Alfred began running after her she knew instinctively if he caught her she would not be coming home at all. It made her run even faster. He nearly caught her twice, always with that butterfly knife. But she made it to her fence line and was over it, astin stooped at the fence and began shouting threats all of which she knew he was capable of carrying out.
She got to her bedroom. Her body was racked with convulsions for air. Finally she could breathe, but what to do? Alfred would be watching for her to be alone.


Alfred would be in her class at school he had failed two classes and now he would be in forth grade.. she knew what he was! The paper was full of girls gone missing. The way he used that knife of his she knew that he used it before on other girls. But then he also knew what she was.
All that year Astin was hateful, he teased her, hit her and got others to fight with her. He made her life miserable. Most of the people eaIter could not or would not help her. Her father simply told her she needed to fight but how could she tell him what Alfred relay was. He would not believe her, for what she was. More and more she hated being with the boys. she had nothing in common with them.
She discovered the Nef girls. They were mostly shunned by the other girls because they wore identical dresses that their mother sowed for them. But that is the way they liked it. But somehow they liked fanny. So 4th grade passed for fanny without much drama. She was allowed to have reuses in the girls playground! That was so cool,There was a big chain-link fence around the playground it made her feel safe. there were swings and a merry-go-round, slides and a huge walk in doll house. Fanny thought she was in heaven. Sister Margret sat at a table near the fence gate. She could do her needle work in peace.
She had just had a good lesson with sister Margret on embroidery, who knew she loved needle work as she did. But by the time school ended they had a class of four. Despite everyone being so accepting of her she had this constant feeling perhaps they did not have to fight for a sex to belong to, girls could be both it was just not fair. Or was it deeper. Why this rage?
Things were also not so OK with her body. She was starting puberty. She never developed body hair, not even under her arms. Since all boys had body hair, so she must be shaving it off- right?. Aston harped on it all the time. Her skin had become soft and sensitive, her nipples had become huge and began to darken like her mother's. Fanny had not a clue as to why. Since she was a boy these things were not happening. Yet she liked the look. Still there was one dark spot at the end of the year. She had gone to the store alone. Or so she thought but she was not. Alfred was tracking her. She spotted him as she turned the corner. Oh no she thought how stupid you are he can out run me in this ground. The flash of his butterfly knife spired her into movement, she ran not knowing where she was going! Then she came to the equipment shed he had been herding her to this spot like game. She had asked so many times to die but not this way, not to be used and murdered to reside in the north woods with the other girls. No one would know what chapped to her, not even if she was alive or dead. She was looking back when she ran smack dab into sister Margaret. When she looked back again no one was following her. It is not safe for young girls to be alone out here especially you. Get to class I'll walk back with you, said Sister.

Tuesday, June 26, 2012


Beginnings are always delicate, and this one is particularly so! I will cover my life living with this genetic syndrome. I am sure you can find much on the clinical aspect other places (I will leave a list for you at the bottom of the blog). But for me my life was one of broken bones, putdowns, rape,and predigest all through this I was struggling to be myself in a world where every one knew exactly what my life should be like. Except I had a different life in mind, I just wanted to be me, if I could just figure out who I was.